Don’t Overthink This!
She doesn’t need you to fix her. She needs you to lead yourself.
If you’re constantly chasing her affection, attention, and approval,
you’re not drawing her closer—you’re pushing her out of her feminine energy and into masculine mode.
One of the biggest complaints I hear from clients—
and I’ve been coaching men for over a decade—
is that their wives are stuck in masculine energy.
The world keeps her there.
She’s supposed to be a boss babe, a mom, and hot AF—wild, right?
No wonder so many women are running to the “trad life.”
They’re done with the confusion and pressure of trying to please everyone and stay on top.
The Real Problem
You’re feeling the same strain.
But you’ve been looking to her to solve it.
Here’s the simple truth:
If you want her to meet all your emotional needs,
you’re trying to fix your fear of abandonment.
Brother, she can’t do it.
That move dumps her into maternal energy—and that’s not sexy.
(By the way, don’t confuse maternal with feminine; they’re not the same.)
How to Heal Anxious Attachment and Codependency
Start by getting clear on what you’re trying to fix inside.
Are you trying to make your life perfect?
Trying to make her world perfect?
Is she your emotional center—like you can’t live without her?
Pause and ask: Why am I so driven?
The Three-Step Plan
After a decade of coaching men, I can tell you—
healing starts with three simple steps:
Get clear on what you’ve been doing that’s sabotaged your marriage.
Get clear on what you need to do differently.
(Think: quit sugar, start exercising.)Build routine around it.
That’s it.
If you start to rep this, she’ll relax.
She’ll rest in her feminine energy in no time.
Your Next Step
For the last decade, I’ve been coaching founders, church leaders, entrepreneurs, and business owners on how to step fully into their masculinity—how to lead with clarity, courage, and conviction.
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Since 2010, I’ve helped founders, entrepreneurs, and business owners heal:
Codependency
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You’re not broken.
But you must change.
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Don’t overthink this. 🥴
If you’re constantly trying to get her affection, her attention, and her approval, you’re pushing her out of her feminine energy and into masculine mode.
One of the biggest complaints I hear from clients after a decade coaching men is that their wives are stuck in masculine energy. The world keeps her there: she’s supposed to be a boss babe, a mom, and hot AF—wild. No wonder so many women run to the trad life. They’re done with the confusion and pressure of trying to please everyone and stay on top...
You’re feeling the same strain, but you’ve been looking to HER to solve it. Simple truth: if you want her to meet all your emotional needs, you’re trying to fix your fear of abandonment. Pal, she can’t do it. That dumps her into maternal energy, and that’s not sexy. BTW—don’t confuse maternal with feminine; they’re not the same.
So how do you heal anxious attachment and codependency? Start by getting clear on what you’re trying to fix inside. Are you trying to make your life perfect? Trying to make her world perfect? Is she your emotional center—as if you can’t live without her? Pause and ask why you’re so driven.
From here it’s a basic three-step plan I’ve used for a decade. Get clear on what you’ve been doing that messed up your marriage. Get clear on how you need to act differently (think quit sugar, start exercising). Build routine around it.
That’s it. If you start to rep this, she’ll rest in her feminine energy in no time.
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For the last decade I’ve been coaching founders, church leaders, entrepreneurs, and business owners on how to step fully into their masculinity. Ready? Follow me @ronbcecil to get going.
