The Secure Man

A 3-Month Coaching Program, plus On-Going Men's Group with Ron Cecil where you will learn how to lead at home, lead at work, heal the Anxious Attachment & become unstoppable.

Stop walking on eggshells. Start leading your marriage.

You crush it at work. You lead teams, build businesses, and make big decisions without breaking a sweat.

But at home?

You feel like you’re failing. You’re constantly walking on eggshells, chasing her approval, apologizing for everything—even things you didn’t do.

You’ve tried therapy. You’ve read the books. You’ve listened to every podcast. But deep down, nothing’s changing because the problem isn’t a lack of information—it’s a lack of transformation. And that only happens when you’re surrounded by men who get it.

What is The Secure Man Group?

It’s a 12-week proving ground for high-achieving men who are done being anxiously attached, codependent Nice Guys.

It’s not therapy. It’s not another “feel-good” support group.

This is a space where you’ll finally:

  1. Stop making her your emotional center and start standing on your own two feet.

2. Heal the root of your anxious attachment and codependency.

3. Regain your identity outside of her moods, chaos, or coldness.

4. Set boundaries without guilt and lead without fear.

5. Stop parenting her and start pursuing your wife performance or people-pleasing.

This isn’t therapy. This is brotherhood.

Every week, you’ll get practical teaching and a powerful space to share your story—and hear other men share theirs. That’s where the healing happens. That’s where you stop performing for her approval and start living for your purpose.

How It Works

  • 12 Weeks of Live Group Calls
     Each week we’ll meet in a structured format: 15–20 minutes of targeted teaching and 40+ minutes of powerful group work.

  • Real Brotherhood
     You’ll share your story and hear other men share theirs. You’ll discover you’re not alone—and that’s where the healing starts.

  • Practical, Real-World Tools
     No fluff. You’ll learn how to show up as the man at home that you already are at work.

  • A Proven Process
     For the last decade, I’ve been helping men heal their inner child and create the conditions to save their marriage and lead their life. This isn’t theory. It’s tested and it works.

What makes this different?

Most men try to fix their marriage by “working on the marriage.” They try harder. They people-please harder. They go to therapy to prove they’re “trying.”

But here’s the truth:

Your marriage won’t change until YOU change.

And you won’t change until you stop doing this for her and start doing this for you.

When you finally stop living for her approval and start living from your secure, grounded masculine core… everything shifts.

This is for you if…

  • You’re crushing it at work but feel powerless at home.

  • You’re tired of walking on eggshells and over-apologizing.

  • You’ve lost your identity outside of her moods and the needs of everyone else.

  • You’re ready to stop being a Nice Guy and start being a Secure Man.

What You’ll Achieve

  • The ability to lead and pursue your wife without fear or performance.

  • The power to set boundaries without guilt.

  • Freedom from anxious attachment and codependency.

  • A brotherhood of men who have your back for life.

If you’re done…

…being anxiously attached.


…being codependent.


…being the “good guy” who feels hollow inside.


…making her your emotional center.

…then click below and join The Secure Man Group today.

Start Today

Start Today

“I feel 1000lbs lighter after our talk today. Thank you!”
— Bob R.
“Every interaction with Ron, I come away lighter, more centered, and with an improved outlook on life”
— Mike L
“Ron, why are our session so on point? WTF, minde-reading sorcerer. Much appreciated, Amigo. ”
— Bill R.

✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

    • You don’t feel good enough as you are.

    • You need her approval to feel okay about yourself.

    • When you don’t get it, you obsess, lose sleep, and shove your own needs so far on the back burner that you never reach your real potential.

  • The biggest issue I see men face (besides codependency) is isolation—which feeds codependency. Most men are alone, so they look to a woman to meet all their needs.

    You’ll find more healing and freedom in hearing from other men who are going through the same thing.

    My 1:1 availability is very limited and currently on a waitlist. Click here to get added.

  • Once a week. You can choose between two time slots:

    • Tuesday at 6am PST / 9am EST

    • Thursday at 11am PST / 2pm EST

  • Each call runs up to two hours. I’ll start with a focused teaching, then open the floor for questions and group discussion.

  • All calls are recorded so you can watch on your own time.

  • Yes. When you join, you become part of a live community of men just like you. Many of my clients have built lasting friendships here—and some have even gone on to start businesses together.

  • Yes—if you put in the work and push past that universal inner voice saying, “I’m so special, I can’t change.” Everyone buys into that lie at some point. That’s the only thing that will stop you.

  • Once you join, it’s your responsibility to show up, do the work between calls, and take ownership of your results.