The Secure Man

A 3-Month Coaching Program, plus On-Going Men's Group with Ron Cecil where you will learn how to lead at home, lead at work, heal the Anxious Attachment & become unstoppable.

12 Weekly Live Calls

On going twice a week live calls on rolling scheduled ensuring that you’ll never miss a call time.

Coaching From Ron

Direct access to Ron for coaching, you’ll never be passed off to an underling coach who’s never experienced what you’re going through.

Complete Curriculum

Step-by-step curriculum that walks you through exactly what you need to understand and to in order to be completely free from Codependency, Anxious Attachment, and Nice Guy Syndrome.

Q&A for Total Clarity

The meeting never ends until ALL calls have been answered. You will never get off a call until you’re completely sure what you need to be doing to lead yourself and your wife.

Access to Recordings

All lessons and Q&A are recorded and saved behind a password protected curriculum platform, you’ll have access to the recordings, and homework for life.

Self Mastery

in under 90 days, you’ll learn to lead yourself, walk with more confidence, and start living a life you’re proud of- ensuring that you stop looking to her for approval.

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“I feel 1000lbs lighter after our talk today. Thank you!”
— Bob, Current Client
“Ron, why are our session so on point? WTF, minde-reading sorcerer. Much appreciated, Amigo. ”
— Bill, Current Client

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✺ Frequently asked questions ✺

    • You don’t feel good enough as you are.

    • You need her approval to feel okay about yourself.

    • When you don’t get it, you obsess, lose sleep, and shove your own needs so far on the back burner that you never reach your real potential.

  • The biggest issue I see men face (besides codependency) is isolation—which feeds codependency. Most men are alone, so they look to a woman to meet all their needs.

    You’ll find more healing and freedom in hearing from other men who are going through the same thing.

    My 1:1 availability is very limited and currently on a waitlist. Click here to get added.

  • Once a week. You can choose between two time slots:

    • Tuesday at 6am PST / 9am EST

    • Thursday at 11am PST / 2pm EST

  • Each call runs up to two hours. I’ll start with a focused teaching, then open the floor for questions and group discussion.

  • All calls are recorded so you can watch on your own time.

  • Yes. When you join, you become part of a live community of men just like you. Many of my clients have built lasting friendships here—and some have even gone on to start businesses together.

  • Yes—if you put in the work and push past that universal inner voice saying, “I’m so special, I can’t change.” Everyone buys into that lie at some point. That’s the only thing that will stop you.

  • Once you join, it’s your responsibility to show up, do the work between calls, and take ownership of your results.